Kids · Parshas Toldos, 4 Kislev 5787 · 1:08
The Blessing That Stayed, and the Gift Called Shabbos
A Toldos story for ages 5 to 12: Yitzchak's blessing, and Shabbos as a gift that comes with its path. A short video, three ideas, table questions and one activity.
Part 1 · For kids
The story
Yitzchak was old. His eyes were too weak to see well. He called for his older son, Eisav. "Bring me some food," he said. "Then I will give you my blessing before I die."
Rivkah was listening. Rivkah had told Yaakov what to do. Soon Yaakov brought food to his father. Yitzchak asked, "Who are you, my son?" Then Yitzchak blessed Yaakov.
A little later, Eisav came in with his food. Yitzchak shook all over. He said, "I already blessed him. Now he will stay blessed!" Eisav cried out loud.
The blessing stayed with Yaakov.
Three ideas
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A blessing is a gift
In the blessing, Yitzchak said "veyiten", "may He give." The Sfas Emes reads that word as the language of a gift. And Hashem's great gift to us is Shabbos.
Note. Ours: "a blessing is a gift" is our short way to say it. The Sfas Emes says that "veyiten" is the language of a gift (19:4).
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A gift comes with its path
The Sfas Emes shares his grandfather's teaching, a law about gifts. If you give a friend a pit, you must also give him a path to it. In the same way, Hashem gives Shabbos, and He gives the path to it too. He suggests, with the word "perhaps", that Shabbos is like a well. Friday is the time to open the mouth of the well. The more a person longs to receive Shabbos with joy, the more he is shown the way.
Note. Our explanation: this is our retelling in simple words. The picture of the well is the Sfas Emes's, and he offers it with the word "perhaps."
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Shabbos blesses the whole week
The Sfas Emes says that all six days are blessed from Shabbos. Shabbos gives a blessing to the weekdays, so that in them we can prepare the path to the next Shabbos.
Note. Ours: the whole week is one walk toward Shabbos, and the gift reaches back into it. Each Shabbos helps us get ready for the next.
Questions for the Shabbos table
- Yitzchak's words had power. What is one kind thing you can say at our table that you will be glad you said?
- A gift comes with its path. What do we do on Friday that is the path to Shabbos?
- How can we start getting ready for Shabbos on Sunday, and not only on Friday?
Activity: The Path to Shabbos
Start on Sunday. If Shabbos is close, start today. Do steps 1 to 3 before Shabbos starts. Do not write, draw, cut or tear on Shabbos. If you are not sure about anything else, ask a parent or your rav.
- Find a small box. We will use this box to help us picture a treasure house.
- Each day before Shabbos, put in the box one note or picture of something you did to get ready for Shabbos. It can be a kind word, setting the table or a helping hand.
- On Friday, before Shabbos, read the notes together. These notes are the path to Shabbos.
- At the Shabbos table, each child says one kind wish out loud from memory. Do not use the box on Shabbos. Leave it alone until after Shabbos.
- On Sunday, start again. The next Shabbos is already coming.
Part 2 · The piece, explained
The piece in plain words
Our Sages say that Hashem told Moshe: "I have a good gift in My treasure house, and its name is Shabbos" (Beitzah 16a:7).
The Sfas Emes asks what it means that Shabbos is a gift. In Toldos 13:4 (5643), in the name of his grandfather, he brings a law about gifts: one who gives a pit has a path to it. In 19:4 he says it more fully: one who gives a pit to his friend must give him a path. So Hashem's gift of Shabbos comes with its path. He suggests, with the word "perhaps", that Shabbos is like a well. Getting ready on Friday opens the mouth of the well. And the more a person longs to receive Shabbos with joy, the more he is shown the way.
In Toldos 16:4 and 19:4 he adds that all six days are blessed from Shabbos. Shabbos blesses the weekdays, so that in them we can prepare the path to the next Shabbos. Then again, and again.
Where it comes from
The Sfas Emes is the Torah of Rabbi Yehudah Aryeh Leib Alter, the Gerrer Rebbe. He gave a Shabbos teaching on the parsha in most years, and the books gather them by year. This one is section 4 of his 5643 teaching on Toldos.
He came back to this gift again and again. The teaching of "a good gift" appears in at least five of his Toldos pieces, from five different years: 5643, 5645, 5646, 5648 and 5649. The pieces we use here are 13:4, 16:4 and 19:4, and 2:5 from the year 5632 for the story of Yitzchak's mistaken blessing.
Why this Shabbos
This is Shabbos Toldos, the Shabbos of Yitzchak's blessing. Yitzchak's blessing to Yaakov includes the word "veyiten", "and may He give" (Genesis 27:28). In 19:4 the Sfas Emes reads that word as the language of a gift. So the parsha and the teaching about Shabbos meet in one word.
For a family, the lesson is practical. If the gift comes with its path, then Sunday through Friday are not just waiting. They are the path.
Part 3 · Connections and go deeper
Every source, with its link
- Story Genesis 27:1–33
The blessing story: Yitzchak is old, asks Eisav for food, blesses the one who comes in, and says "he will stay blessed" (27:33). - Core Sfas Emes, Toldos 2:5 (5632)
Yitzchak meant to bless Eisav and it did not succeed. Each morning a person can accept Hashem as King. - Core Beitzah 16a:7
Hashem tells Moshe: a good gift in My treasure house, Shabbos is its name. - Core Sfas Emes, Toldos 19:4 (5649)
One who gives a pit gives a path. Hashem's gift comes with the way to get ready. Shabbos blesses the weekdays. - Core Sfas Emes, Toldos 13:4 (5643)
Perhaps Shabbos is the well. Friday's preparation opens it. Longing for Shabbos shows the path. - Core Sfas Emes, Toldos 16:4 (5646)
All six days are blessed from Shabbos. - Deeper Genesis 27:28
Words of the blessing to Yaakov: "veyiten lecha", "and may He give you." - Deeper Shabbos 10b:4
The same teaching of the good gift, with the law that one who gives a gift to his friend must let him know. - Deeper Sfas Emes, Toldos 18:6 (5648)
The same gift, read with the law that the giver must make himself known. - Deeper Sfas Emes, Toldos 15:4 (5645)
The three wells of Yitzchak: weekday service, then Shabbos as a gift from Heaven.
How they connect
The story asks the question. Yitzchak's blessing includes the word "veyiten", "may He give": a blessing is a gift. In 2:5 the Sfas Emes says that Yitzchak meant to bless Eisav, and it did not succeed. Ours: the blessing is not only in the giver's hand.
Beitzah 16a:7 names the great gift: Shabbos, kept in Hashem's treasure house. 19:4 and 13:4 then ask what makes a gift real. A gift comes with its path, and the path is the weekday preparation, opened by longing.
16:4 and 19:4 close the circle. The blessing flows from Shabbos back into all six days, so each week prepares the next Shabbos. Lines marked "Ours" or "Put simply" are our reading, not the Sfas Emes's.
A path to learn it
- Kids, ages 5 to 12. Watch the video before Shabbos. Talk about the three questions. Do the Path to Shabbos activity.
- Parents. Read "The piece in plain words." Then read the Hebrew excerpts below. Start with Beitzah 16a:7, then 19:4, 13:4 and 16:4. Read the English line under each one.
- Learn it. Open Toldot 13:4 on Sefaria. It is one short paragraph. Read the Hebrew out loud, then the Sefaria English if you want help. Mark three things: the law of the gift, the well, and "longing shows the path." Then open 19:4 and find the same law.
- Go deeper. Read Shabbat 10b:4 and Beitzah 16a:7 side by side. Then Toldot 15:4 (the three wells) and 18:6. Ask: what changes on Friday if the weekdays are the path?
Video words
A present, but no way to reach it. Is it still a present?
Yitzchak was old and could not see well. He wanted to bless his son Eisav, but the blessing went to Yaakov.
In the blessing, Yitzchak said: may He give. Put simply: a blessing is a gift.
A good gift! The Sages say Hashem told Moshe: I have a good gift in My treasure house. Its name is Shabbos.
A pit comes with its path. That is the law of a gift, the Sfas Emes teaches in his grandfather's name.
Perhaps Shabbos is the well, the Sfas Emes says. Friday opens the mouth of the well, and that is the path.
A person who longs for Shabbos with joy is shown the way. The more he longs, the more he is shown.
In another year, the Sfas Emes adds: Shabbos blesses the weekdays, so we can get ready for the next Shabbos.
Put simply: the path is part of the gift. Getting ready for Shabbos is part of the gift too.
Our takeaway: this week, start on Sunday. One small step toward Shabbos, every day.
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Read the Hebrew
All translations are ours, verified against the fetched Hebrew. The Hebrew is cut word for word from Sefaria.
A note or line marked Ours is our reading. No source says it. A note or line marked Our explanation is our simple retelling of the source beside it. Our explanations are labeled separately.
The story retells Genesis 27 in simple words. Some lines are not quoted below. Children may ask why Yaakov took the blessing this way, or whether it was fair to Eisav. This page does not answer that. Ask your rav or teacher.
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וַֽיְהִי֙ כִּֽי־זָקֵ֣ן יִצְחָ֔ק וַתִּכְהֶ֥יןָ עֵינָ֖יו מֵרְאֹ֑ת
Our English: When Yitzchak was old, his eyes were too dim to see.
Our explanation: Yitzchak was old and could not see well.
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בַּעֲב֛וּר תְּבָרֶכְךָ֥ נַפְשִׁ֖י בְּטֶ֥רֶם אָמֽוּת
Our English: so that my soul may bless you before I die.
Our explanation: Yitzchak wanted to give a blessing before he died.
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וְרִבְקָ֣ה שֹׁמַ֔עַת בְּדַבֵּ֣ר יִצְחָ֔ק אֶל־עֵשָׂ֖ו בְּנ֑וֹ וַיֵּ֤לֶךְ עֵשָׂו֙ הַשָּׂדֶ֔ה
Our English: Rivkah was listening as Yitzchak spoke to Eisav his son. And Eisav went out to the field.
Our explanation: Rivkah hears Yitzchak's words to Eisav.
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וְעַתָּ֥ה בְנִ֖י שְׁמַ֣ע בְּקֹלִ֑י לַאֲשֶׁ֥ר אֲנִ֖י מְצַוָּ֥ה אֹתָֽךְ
Our English: Now, my son, listen to my voice, to what I command you.
Our explanation: Rivkah tells Yaakov what to do.
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מִ֥י אַתָּ֖ה בְּנִֽי
Our English: Who are you, my son?
Our explanation: Yitzchak asks who has come in.
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וַיֶּחֱרַ֨ד יִצְחָ֣ק חֲרָדָה֮ גְּדֹלָ֣ה עַד־מְאֹד֒
Our English: Yitzchak trembled very greatly.
Our explanation: Yitzchak shakes all over.
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וַיִּצְעַ֣ק צְעָקָ֔ה גְּדֹלָ֥ה וּמָרָ֖ה
Our English: He cried out a great and bitter cry.
Our explanation: Eisav cries out.
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וָאֲבָרְכֵ֑הוּ גַּם־בָּר֖וּךְ יִהְיֶֽה
Our English: and I blessed him. Also, blessed he shall be.
Our explanation: Yitzchak says that the one he blessed will stay blessed.
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וְיִֽתֶּן־לְךָ֙ הָאֱלֹהִ֔ים
Our English: And may God give you.
Our explanation: The blessing to Yaakov includes the word "veyiten", "may He give."
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Sfas Emes, Genesis, Toldos 19:4 (5649)
ויתן הוא מתנה
Our English: And "veyiten" is a gift.
Our explanation: The Sfas Emes reads the word "veyiten" as the language of a gift.
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משה מתנה טובה יש לי בבית גנזי ושבת שמה ואני מבקש ליתנה לישראל
Our English: Moshe! I have a good gift in My treasure house, and Shabbos is its name, and I wish to give it to Yisroel.
Our explanation: Hashem tells Moshe about a good gift in His treasure house. Its name is Shabbos.
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Sfas Emes, Genesis, Toldos 19:4 (5649)
ולכן הנותן בור לחבירו צריך ליתן לו דרך. כן המתנה שנותן הקב"ה נותן ג"כ הדרך שיהי' האדם מוכן לקבל המתנה
Our English: Therefore one who gives a pit to his friend must give him a path. So too the gift that Hashem gives: He also gives the path, so that a person is ready to receive the gift.
Our explanation: A gift comes with its path. Hashem gives Shabbos, and He gives the way to get ready for it.
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Sfas Emes, Genesis, Toldos 13:4 (5643)
בשם מו"ז ז"ל
Our English: In the name of my teacher and grandfather, of blessed memory.
Our explanation: The Sfas Emes brings this teaching in his grandfather's name.
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Sfas Emes, Genesis, Toldos 13:4 (5643)
הנותן בור יש לו דרך
Our English: When a pit is given, there is a path to it.
Our explanation: A gift comes with its path. This is the line on the video card.
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Sfas Emes, Genesis, Toldos 13:4 (5643)
ואפשר על זה אמרו פי הבאר נברא בע"ש בין השמשות. כי שבת הוא הבאר
Our English: And perhaps about this they said: The mouth of the well was created on Erev Shabbos at twilight. For Shabbos is the well.
Our explanation: The Sfas Emes suggests that Shabbos is like a well. He opens with the word "perhaps."
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Sfas Emes, Genesis, Toldos 13:4 (5643)
רק גם ההכנה בע"ש ניתן משמים שהוא עת לפתוח פי הבאר שהיא הדרך לקשר ימי המעשה בהשבת
Our English: But the preparation on Erev Shabbos is also given from Heaven. It is the time to open the mouth of the well, the path that connects the weekdays with Shabbos.
Our explanation: Getting ready on Friday is also a gift from Heaven. It opens the path from the weekdays to Shabbos.
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Sfas Emes, Genesis, Toldos 13:4 (5643)
וכפי מה שאדם מגעגע לקבל השבת בשמחה כך מורין לו הדרך
Our English: And according to how a person yearns to receive Shabbos with joy, so he is shown the way.
Our explanation: The more we long for Shabbos with joy, the more we are shown the way.
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Sfas Emes, Genesis, Toldos 16:4 (5646)
וכן מן השבת מיני' מתברכין כל שיתא יומין. והיינו כח השפעה ונתינת כל הימים הוא בשבת
Our English: And so from Shabbos all six days are blessed. That is, the power of giving to all the days is in Shabbos.
Our explanation: All six days are blessed from Shabbos.
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Sfas Emes, Genesis, Toldos 19:4 (5649)
וכן הוא בשבת קודש שנותן ברכה לימי המעשה שנוכל להכין בהם הדרך לקבל השבת הבא
Our English: And so it is with holy Shabbos: it gives a blessing to the weekdays, so that in them we can prepare the path to receive the coming Shabbos.
Our explanation: Shabbos blesses the weekdays, so we can get ready for the next Shabbos.
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